Frequently Asked Questions

On this page you will find a list of boundaries, as well as frequently asked questions. To save both my time and yours, please do not ask me any questions you can find the answers for on this page.

We all have limits and boundaries. Here is a list of mine:
No brown showers
No requests for nudity or partial nudity
No biting
Absolutely no sex offered or implied

How do I book a session with you?
I require at least 48 hours notice for new submissives and 24 hour notice for those who have served me before. New submissives must fill out my questionnaire, which will give me a chance to learn more about your desires and allow me to see if we are a good match. I prefer all initial contact to be through email, though we will ahve a chance to speak on the phone as our session time draws closer. More information can be found on the Session page.

Can I make a same day appointment?
My schedule fills up quickly, and I share my space with other Mistresses so appointments have to be made in advance. Same day appointments may be possible for those who have served me before.

Do you have a late/cancellation policy?
I take great care in preparing myself and my space for our session. If you are late, I expect to be compensated for our scheduled time in its entirety. I will not be able to extend our session beyond the time we have scheduled. If you cancel with less than 24 hours notice I will require a $50 non-refundable deposit if you wish to re-book.

Are multiple Mistress sessions available?
Yes, I love playing with my Mistress friends! I especially enjoy double sessions with my close friend Mistress Ai-Li. We have been exploring BDSM together for over 3 years. I also enjoy exploring with new people, so if you have a particular Mistress in mind, feel free to let me know.

Are overnight sessions available?
Overnight sessions are only available to those who have served me before.

Do you do outcall sessions?
Yes, outcall sessions are available to those who have served me before.

Do you do phone/email domination sessions?
No, I find it much more enjoyable and exciting to interact face to face.

Can I be your personal slave?
No, the position is currently filled with my longtime, devoted submissives.

I am a photographer/web designer/etc. would you be interested in doing a trade for sessions?
No, I do not barter my services. I make a livelihood from my work as well as deriving great personal satisfaction in what I do.

Can I bring you a gift?
Though not necessary, I love receiving thoughtful gifts! Click on the Spoil Me link at the top of the page to find out more about what I like.

Do you play with novices?
Yes, I love exploring with submissives new to BDSM!

What is your ideal submissive?
I enjoy playing with courteous and responsive submissives. I expect all my submissives to be mentally and physically prepared for our session.